.....Hey peeps, this Friday is flirty friday..yap, for all those who are single ( i think am included..bohooooo- i need help) ..this is your ideal time to get down and roll out the best lyrics you can to get a date.

Being a flirty evening, it got me thinking- what is it that strikes you most in a woman's dressing? Before you even get to talk to her, what is it that mesmerises you about her appearance? For me, the first thing i look at in a woman are her shoes....-To me, shoes tell a lot about a woman...and the higher the heels, the better- it tells of how sexy that woman is...and ohh its a "turn on for me".......

Here are a few pointers on what different shoes say about you- .....take notes, they will help you decide on what to wear next time you need a date........you can add onto for more( get more from Daily Monitor) ...

- Women who wear shoes in bright colours such as pink; yellow or red may seem bold, confident and more assertive than their more conservative sisters. If it were a party, the person who wore red or pink shoes would definitely get noticed. Therefore if you wear pink, strappy shoes, don't complain if you attract a lot of attention, as it may seem that you were asking for it.

-The material your shoe is made from matters too. Is your shoe crafted out of crocodile, snake, lizard skin or some other rare animal hide? We assume that since these animals are not easy to catch for their skins, then you must have gone out of your way to find this pair of shoes.
You must have spent a lot of money on them and you are definitely a fussy person. In fact we wonder what your handbag or wallet is made from and what your living room sofas look like.

-If you own a pair of glittery lizard skin shoes, you'd better mind where you wear them. If you wear them to work, we might question the state of your mind. And mind our eyes. We need shades to contain the rays of light bouncing off your shiny shoes.

-Women's boots are stylish accessories that define their legs and accentuate their clothes. However you need to mind the colour and length of the boots if you don't want to come out looking like a call girl.

-Shoes also speak volumes about our gender. You've got to wear the sort of shoes whereby if someone could only see your feet and not the rest of your body, what would they think you are a woman or a man? Would they be sure of your gender just by looking at your shoes or are you the kind of man who wears beaded Masai sandals, which are ordinarily reserved for women

-Finally, how thick is the sole of your shoe? That's the only way we can decide if you're grown woman or a wannabe teenager........

Just remember at all times that shoes are a mirror through which the general public can see into our souls. As you leave the house each morning, keep in mind that you will be leaving footprints of your personality on every street and sidewalk. When they look at your shoes, people will either appreciate your efforts at dressing up or they will wonder what on earth you were thinking.

So don't say i never told you...................

V.....