LILY IN:

whoaaa! i haven't blogged for like forever! but here i is! yeah...took a trip to La La Land....and boy was it a trip! i saw colours...vibrant...mixing into the meaning of life...nway,just kidding!
so, after all the madness jana with Styles (he's a nut! and no i don't have a crush on him...ok, maybe a little!) we went all serious on ya'll 2day.

yup! the crew is deep and funky! i love u guys! (sob! sob! sniffle! ...fart!....oops! did i let that one rip?) Jazz is back! si tumekumiss jo!

but seriously...was watchin news jana and what the heck was goin on with the whole car biz? the MPs were supposed to return the cars but less than half have been returned! but what made me hoppin mad was the fact that one of the cars cost 17 million! WHAT!!? when i think of all the kenyans struggling to survive! it just ain't right!!

but to happier news...got some deep stuff for all the ladies out there and guys, feel free to comment. i think women need to be lifted and realise just how VALUABLE they are! (see time in La La Land has made me so goshdarn deep!) are u a girl or a woman?

GIRL Vs GROWN WOMAN

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and make plans. Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he fits in.

Girls want to control the man in their life. Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesn't need controlling.

Girls check you for not calling them. Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.

Girls try to put a man 'on lock' by using sex. Grown women know that it’s the sex of the mental kind that makes a man want to 'lock' you down.

Girls are afraid to be alone. Grown women revel in it-- using it as a time for personal growth.

Girls ignore the good guys. Grown women ignore the bad guys.

Girls make you come. Grown women make you come home.

Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man. Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.

Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (i.e., don't want him hanging with his friends). Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even more special -- and goes to kick it with her own friends!

Girls think a guy crying is weak. Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.

Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so. Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o fear of losing his 'manhood'.

Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it. Grown women know that that was just one man.

Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection, ignoring all 'signs'. Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, don't always love you back -- and move on, without bitterness.

Girls will read this and get an attitude. Grown women will read this and pass it on to other Grown women

yup! u guessed it! i'm a grown woman! and lovin it too!

ya'll have a nice day now,ya hear?

LILY OUT!